SUNDAY BLOG: WHEN LIFE WAS BEAUTIFUL

Mary Edith Campbell

In the late 1800s Edith Campbell was the equivalent of what came to be known as a Page Three girl except she was modest and genteel and although still a teenager, when her photograph graced a window in High Street Belfast she was a talking point for all who passed by. 

Born in 1876 Edith grew up in the grandeur of Glenfarne Hall, in Leitrim on the Fermanagh border in the Parish of Cloonclaire, in the Valley of the Alders. 

This was the summer residence of Sir Edward Harland founder of Harland and Wolff and MP for north Belfast and it was here that the great and the good came to  enjoy balls and banquets.  The estate was large, well tended, on the side of Lough McNean with a nearby quarry that apparently provided the flag stones that were transported to Belfast to form the Titanic slipway.   

 It must have been a heady place for a little girl whose father was the land stewart for the estate and  I can just imagine the boys and girls from the village meeting at the crossroads to dance and fall in love, right on the spot where The Ballroom of Romance stands today.

For whatever reason, perhaps as a result of her mother’s death,  Edith was plucked from this idyllic childhood and, when only 16 years of age, sent to work in a family run cafe in Donegall Street in the bustling town of Belfast.  It proved difficult for her loving father to say goodbye and obviously he worried about his only daughter as this letter indicates.  Might she be homesick?

Glenfarne Hall

6th September 1893

My Dear Daughter

I am so much grieved to hear of you not being well that I don’t know what I am doing, but I trust in God that you will soon get alright

Come home at once, first write to tell me all about it, and then I will send you the money in the mean time don’t for any sake lace yourself tight and that would be a great cause and take all the open air you can and long walks and take some iron, I shall send you money for worship when you write and also for any medicine you require you might borrow a few shillings from Mr. Morrow and take a few days at Bangor first and then come home.

I believe I know what is the matter, so I hope you will soon get out of it.

Greene is left and I hear was married yesterday in the Parish Chapel.

All are well here except a cold I have got.

Please write by return and let us know all.

Your loving Father,  F Campbell

Good bye and God bless you to I see you.

Be sure and don’t lace tight

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She was a beauty with many admirers, one young man even travelled from Glasgow every month just to sit in the corner of the cafe and gaze upon her as she moved between the small tables.   One day he plucked up enough courage to propose, poor boy was turned down flat but I’m sure with a soft word and a gentle smile, she never lost that charm and interesting that even in her late 70s she was payed court by a handsome gentleman, an elderly sea captain who had sailed round the Cape  Horn in a clipper ship!

It was about this time the young Edith was ‘head hunted’ by the well known photographer Clement Little whose studio was in High Street.  He had developed his own unique line in portraiture and wanted to advertise his professionalism, he needed a model and perhaps he’d walked up Donegall Street to the tea shop where he spied young Edith Campbell and with her family’s permission she was photographed in various gowns and vignettes which were then displayed in the atelier’s window, but it was the large portrait of the girl with hair tumbling over her shoulder and a lace colour that attracted families into Mr. Lyttle’s studio.

In her thirties Edith became an adventurous woman heading off to America to visit her cousin in Queens, New York.  It must have been about 1912 when she boarded the RMS Lusitania on her outward bound journey and her letters home spoke of dancing and playing whist.  She writes about staying up after a ‘wonderful party to watch the lights on Coney Island looking like fairyland.’ Her son gave her a modest diamond ring that could be sold if she needed to come home in a hurry or lost her ticket.   As it was she returned on the Lusitania which, not so long afterwards was torpedoed with the loss of 1193 lives.  

Edith did marry, in fact twice.  First of all Thomas Graham a Queen’s Islandman  who, when he died a report in the newspaper told how he was carried from Lilliput Cottage in North Belfast to the Borough Cemetery attended by 4000 men and women.  She then married bespoke tailor John de Winter who worked in North Street Arcade.  She had two sons by her first marriage and two daughters with her second husband, one of them was my mother.

Remember this time of year when the days were shortening and blazers were bought, often handed down? Awful grey socks and navy nickers for me, school books bought from my Dad’s friend’s bookshop in Smithfield – once a maths book had all the answers written against the questions! I did well that year. There was a feeling of dread mixed with excitement. As the first day of term approached, at what ever age – at least until I was fifteen and asked to leave, I began to feel very sick. In our house it was called schoolitis and was totally ignored.

Children and young people have a new and horrible case of schoolitis to deal with at the moment and my heart goes out to them.

What a disgrace. How can these politician people who are supposed to be educated, intelligent and caring be so crass in their handling of the bungling examination cum assessments results our poor children have had to endure. How dare they put families through the agony of the last couple of weeks. Johnson obviously doesn’t care a jot, like so many of the members of our ‘government’ a life of privilege has removed them from the so called ordinary person. What do they know of the struggle of study when living in a family having difficulty in coping with modern life, the fear of covid 19, I won’t dignify it with a capital letter, perhaps both parents working and anticipating the loss of employment. How dare they be so casual with human lives and hopes for the future. The problem is they don’t care, it will eventually blow over and no one will be held responsible. At least in Northern Ireland people tried but it doesn’t excuse the trauma little children and hopeful teenagers have gone through.

I’m Doomed!

THANK YOU CANDY D FOR THE WISE WORDS OF WISDOM BELOW, SO MUCH MORE MEANINGFUL THAN THE IDIOT WORDS ABOVE!